Listen Like You Mean It
“Full of instantly revealing, instantly applicable ideas for leveraging your strengths and overcoming your weaknesses.” - Adam Grant, NYT bestselling author of Think Again and Originals host of the TED podcast WorkLife
“This zestful guide will inspire readers to listen better.”
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Hear me out. Does this sound like you?
You end a team meeting and can't recall a single thing that was said.
You leave a conversation with a friend feeling disconnected and unfulfilled.
You think you and your boss are on the same page, only to find out you haven't been meeting expectations.
Fortunately, listening, like any communication skill, can be improved--and Ximena Vengoechea can show you how. As a user researcher, she has spent the past six years facilitating hundreds of conversations at LinkedIn, Twitter, and Pinterest. It's her job to uncover the truth behind how people use--and really think about--her company's products. In Listen Like You Mean It, she reveals the tips and tricks of the trade, including:
• How to quickly build rapport with strangers
• Which questions help people unlock what they need to say
• When it's time to throw out the script entirely
• How to recover from listener's drain
Drawing from her own research sessions, as well as stories and interviews with marriage counselors, life coaches, filmmakers, podcast hosts, and other real-life listening experts, Vengoechea shows us how to better listen so that we can all feel heard, connected, and understood in a world that keeps turning up the volume.